Posts Tagged ‘school’

Change Happens

Tuesday, March 3rd, 2009

Yesterday’s Youth4Youth Ultimate Leadership Training (ULT) left me in awe once again. There is this inner joy as the process unfolds - surreal many times.

 I usually put the training segments in place two days before; I pick and choose what segments feel right for the day. I used to wonder why I picked certain exercises but have come to accept rather than question the purpose. That’s where the awe or surreal part comes into play, as the exercises selected are perfect for connecting enough dots to create a clear picture. The picture becomes clear, they get it and I can step back as their process begins to unfold. The best part is when you see teens and preteens make the shift to become young adults and take responsibility for themselves and being the difference in the world around them. I become filled with feelings of excitement and pride. Excited about the future for each student and pride in each of them, as they expand their comfort zone, use their creativity, imagination and talent to create a vision of the future and begin to take action. 

Leadership Tip 1: Make the Path, Leave the Trail

Monday, January 26th, 2009

If you have participated in Youth4Youth Ultimate Leadership Training you know what separates a leader from others is that a leader has vision. You also know you are not born a leader, but you are trained to be a leader and that is why I recommend we train daily. 

 

Here are four easy ways to help you train daily and develop your leadership skills:

 

1.  Read. Always have one or more books you are reading that are uplifting, inspiring or positive. It’s not the amount you read it’s the quality of the information and when you read it. Start your day with a page or two and I highly recommend ending your day with a page or two. The purpose is to always be pointing your mind in a positive direction, while increasing your leadership skills and creativity.

 

2. Take lots of notes. Taking lots of notes makes learning easier. Not only does it    increase our memory and understanding, notes identify what was important and easily allow us to expand our thoughts and ideas.

 

3. Set Goals. Your goals MUST be in writing. Make sure they are achievable, measurable and specific and have a date when you will accomplish each goal. READ your goals daily. (Ideally, do this first thing in the morning and just before bed. Hmm…sound familiar!) SEE yourself (leaders have vision) as how you would be when you achieve your goal. FEEL the feelings you will feel when you have reached your goal. BELIEVE it’s possible and then let it go and go about your day.

 

4. Step out of your comfort zone. We all live within a box called our comfort zone. As a leader you will want to find one opportunity each day to step out of your comfort zone. It may be asking a question in class or speaking up when you see someone being treated unkindly by others. You may volunteer to do an    assignment, read in front of the class or help someone who doesn’t understand something. The more we expand our comfort zone the bigger our box becomes. The idea is to make the world your box! Then, no matter where you go or what the challenge is, you are willing to go for it with confidence. 

 

Your leadership development happens over time. Have patience, practice these easy steps and one day you will realize you are the one making the path and leaving the trail for others to follow. And if others see you as lucky…you will know in your heart — The World Rewards Action!   © 2008 Larry Tracey All Rights Reserved

 

Larry Tracey, writer of this article, is an author and founder of  Youth4Youth. Y4Y teaches success, leadership and promotes school safety by treating everyone with respect.  His latest book, The Secret of the Can, is available at:

www.TheSecretOfTheCan.com

Basketball and Life Skills

Monday, January 26th, 2009

Head coach of Covenant girls basketball team FIRED. Wow! Teaching the qualities of integrity, heart, ability, honor and teamwork can be tough. Beating another team 100-0. Many people are divided on this. Is everyone looking at the poor me syndrome – “Look at these poor girls who got beat or were they victims of defeat” I know when I get my butt kicked there is a lot of personal growth in it. What is your opinion? If you were either team – what would be your thoughts and feelings and reasons why?

Larry Tracey is founder of Youth4Youth, an author, keynote speaker and trainer who teaches success and leadership skills promoting school safety by treating everyone with respect. Contact Larry Tracey at 216-410-4307 or email success@youth4youth.org