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Lessons on Timing & Integrity

Thursday, July 30th, 2009

Judy and I were at Creekwood Golf Course giving it our best shot at filming a Public Service Announcement (PSA) for Youth4Youth and Tickets Fore CharityTM promotion for television. This pair of wanna be producers discovered the realities of filming as wind, too much sun, jets landing every 60 seconds and golfers coming through the 14th green made for a frustrating attempt at filming for a second day. So we jumped in the golf cart and headed for the clubhouse stopping to watch a group of four gentlemen on the 18th tee.  One of the men, Bill Bowers, asked what we were filming and I told him about the PSA for Tickets Fore CharityTMand we were trying to do it ourselves because we didn’t have a budget for it. Bill said, “Hold on a minute I want to talk with you.” He walked over and placed his ball on the tee, looked back at his friends and said, “This is a shot you will tell your grandkids about.” And it was. If only I could have one drive off a tee that perfect it would probably satisfy me for a lifetime. He walks back and gives me his card and says, “I can help you.” Later, when we looked at the video footage, Judy and I looked at each other, smiled and said, “We need help.”  Four days later I was visiting six area TV stations dropping off professional PSA tapes formatted for television thanks to Bill Bowers.

Lesson One - Timing

For Judy and I to have that conversation on the 18th tee at Creekwood Golf Course, failure had to take place, in that the previous day, wind and too much sun gave us unusable video. The next day provided much of the same; wind, sun, jets and golfers passing through causing poor taping conditions. When Bill handed me his card, I immediately knew why we came back to film at the time of day we did and why we continued to try despite the conditions. It was a matter of timing. Had we never pulled up to the 18th tee at that moment in time we would have never met and had that conversation with Bill Bowers. I have become accustom to things happening this way if - I remain open to them and we each have this same opportunity each day.

So I have to ask myself, how often am I in such a hurry that I miss an opportunity?

Let’s blow this out a bit bigger. How often are you in a hurry and so you rush right on by opportunity? How often do we become impatient, frustrated and then become closed off to the many opportunities that present themselves? Slowing down, remaining open and looking for opportunity in the midst of what we perceive as failure will pay big benefits.

 Lesson Two - Integrity

 I learned Bill Bowers is a person of integrity. He said he could help and he did. I am finding this a rare quality in people today. When you say what you will do, then do what you say…that’s integrity! No contracts, no fine print, just Bill’s word. Thank you Bill!

 Special Thanks:

 Bob Kasarda and the team at  Gemini Video Productions whose studio recorded, edited and produced the PSA for Youth4Youth. If you need video or advertising work done I suggest you contact them. If you need a voiceover - Bill Bowers is the guy.

 Dale Sandvick owner of Creekwood Golf Course in Columbia Station, Ohio, whose hospitality and full course access for filming was over the top.

TICKETS Fore CHARITYTM  program for the Bridgestone Invitational, at Firestone Country Club in Akron, Ohio, ends August 3. You MUST purchase your Good Any One Day Gallery Ticket online at the TICKETS Fore CHARITYTM weblink. When you do, the PGA will donate 100% of your net ticket purchase price to charity. For information and to order go to: http://www.youth4youth.org/ticketsforecharity

Be There, Do This, Golfers

Wednesday, June 10th, 2009

Most would agree there is nothing like watching a championship game being played on HDTV. Whether it is tennis, basketball, baseball or golf, there is something better and that is being there.

Being there is inspiring, motivating and it locks the moment in your memory forever. Here’s why: Your body registers the true feeling of the moment. Let’s look at golf. Being there you hear the sound of a powerful drive and from that moment on, you yourself are driven to recreate that same sound in your own drives from the tee. You see and feel that perfect chip onto the green landing one foot from the cup. You’ve seen it, heard it and felt it and from that moment on you strive to reproduce that moment in your own game. Or how about seeing someone make a putt for $1 Million Dollars? You hear the silence, you see the concentration and then you feel the joy as the ball disappears from sight into the cup. You experience the exhilarating excitement of what just happened, reinforced by the roar of the crowd. And for myself, next time I sink that 12-foot putt, I’ll hear the roar of the crowd.

In anything you do, when you see it, feel it and hear it, it makes it so much easier to achieve it!

Here is an opportunity to put this into action. Both youth & adults will be inspired, motivated and create a lifelong memory.

Youth 4 Youth is proud to partner with the PGA 2009 World Golf Championships - Bridgestone Invitational golf tournament through TICKETS Fore CHARITYTM, where 100% of the net proceeds from each ticket go directly to charity. Yes, I said 100%. All of it! So I can’t begin to tell you how excited and energized we are by this opportunity. This allows us to maximize our fundraising efforts so we can spend all of our valuable time making a difference in the lives of youth. While you or others you know who may be interested have the opportunity to enjoy watching the best golfers in the world at this prestigious event, not to mention the beauty of the grounds at Firestone Country Club, in Akron, Ohio, August 4 - 9, 2009. For more information visit: www.youth4youth.org on the right side of the page under golf click on the pink “More Information”

Larry Tracey is author of a book for teens, pre-teens and those who once were teens, titled The Secret of the CAN. Larry is founder of Youth4Youth and believes each student has the potential to be successful. Contact Larry Tracey at success@youth4youth.org

Leadership Tip 17: Invest Attention Units Wisely

Thursday, February 5th, 2009

On any given day there are countless people and activities trying to get our time and attention. We are bombarded by information from cell phones, text messaging, television, I-pods, emails and more. All are constantly seeking to capture their share of our attention units. Let’s add this into the daily mix of your mental “to do” list; school, friends, extracurricular school activities, studying and a job. All of a sudden you are on overload. Sound familiar?

 Oops, I almost forgot…what about all those things you haven’t finished. We call those “incompletes.” You know, that person you said you’d call or text right back and you’ve forgotten. Or school projects you have to finish or have put-off due to lack of time or urgency. These things add up by consuming all your attention units, daily.

Imagine if you were able to focus most of your attention units on your dreams and direction in life! You had the habit of not getting distracted by the drama of life. You had “confidence in” rather than “worry about” the future or the past and you had such an exciting day today that you can hardly wait until tomorrow. Creating the habit of investing your Attention Units wisely will help make those dreams come true, quicker and easier.

 Let’s start with the basics: An attention unit is your ability to remember and keep information in the forefront of your mind. Think of it as the storage capacity of a computer data stick. You only have the capacity to hold so much “stuff,” so a lot of important information gets lost or misplaced. The results are forgotten assignments, missed deadlines, broken promises and agreements, feelings of frustration, guilt, self-doubt and “if only I would have.”

 The Facts:

1.      There are only 24-hours in a day. (This will never change - don’t invest time wishing it were different.)

 2.      Attention Units - we only have so many. The idea here is to free up as many as possible each day to allow you to reach you maximum potential on any given day. (i.e. the more I get done in my 24 hours)

 So what’s the answer? Develop habit patterns that work to support your success. In this case the same old same old is a great thing. Make it work to your advantage as you develop habits that will make your success inevitable.

Being organized is the most effective habit to begin with. In starting, place your attention units here.

 Here are some quick tips that will help you stay focused, do more and be more.

 1. Develop systems to keep organized.

A system is a habit of always doing the same thing the same way. Always put your books in the same place. Always put your homework in the same place. Here are a few other areas to develop habits to stay organized: locker, sports bag, book bag, desk, bedroom, study area, laundry and dirty clothes, dresser and the inside of your car.

 2. Plan tomorrow the night before.

Know what you are going to wear the night before. Know what you have to do tomorrow. What commitments do you have? Review tomorrow in your mind just before you fall asleep and see yourself being successful in everything you do.

 3.      Develop the habit of using a daily planner.

Most schools now have Agendas for each student. Learn to use this great tool. Learning to use this tool effectively frees up so many attention units that it’s unreal.

 4.      Develop the habit of writing down assignments and always taking notes.

Add commitments you make to others and yourself. Always know where your agenda is and keep it with you most of the time.

  Speed Tips For Getting Started and Successful Results:

First, do a major cleaning of your world - locker, sports bag, bedroom, study area, laundry and dirty clothes, dresser and the inside of your car.

 Create a daily checklist to make these habits a part of your life. Before long you will notice your attention units are now focused on your dreams and direction in life. Remember, it takes 30 consecutive days of doing something before it becomes a part of your unconscious habit pattern. (The key word here is consecutive.)

 Oh, I almost forgot! Rumors and gossip, worrying and putting things off - are all wasted attention units that hold you back in life. I know, no one’s perfect and some days we all get distracted by the drama of life. Make a commitment to yourself to not get distracted too long!

 If you have a question or comment email: AttentionUnits@youth4youth.org

PS. The world rewards action! What is one action step you will take right now?       © 2008 Larry Tracey All Rights Reserved

Larry Tracey is founder of Youth4Youth, an author, keynote speaker and trainer who teaches success and leadership life skills. Members of Youth4Youth believe each student has the potential to be successful and work to create environments in which all students are given the opportunity to discover and begin development of their potential. Contact Larry Tracey by email: success@youth4youth.org 

 

Leadership Tip 1: Make the Path, Leave the Trail

Monday, January 26th, 2009

If you have participated in Youth4Youth Ultimate Leadership Training you know what separates a leader from others is that a leader has vision. You also know you are not born a leader, but you are trained to be a leader and that is why I recommend we train daily. 

 

Here are four easy ways to help you train daily and develop your leadership skills:

 

1.  Read. Always have one or more books you are reading that are uplifting, inspiring or positive. It’s not the amount you read it’s the quality of the information and when you read it. Start your day with a page or two and I highly recommend ending your day with a page or two. The purpose is to always be pointing your mind in a positive direction, while increasing your leadership skills and creativity.

 

2. Take lots of notes. Taking lots of notes makes learning easier. Not only does it    increase our memory and understanding, notes identify what was important and easily allow us to expand our thoughts and ideas.

 

3. Set Goals. Your goals MUST be in writing. Make sure they are achievable, measurable and specific and have a date when you will accomplish each goal. READ your goals daily. (Ideally, do this first thing in the morning and just before bed. Hmm…sound familiar!) SEE yourself (leaders have vision) as how you would be when you achieve your goal. FEEL the feelings you will feel when you have reached your goal. BELIEVE it’s possible and then let it go and go about your day.

 

4. Step out of your comfort zone. We all live within a box called our comfort zone. As a leader you will want to find one opportunity each day to step out of your comfort zone. It may be asking a question in class or speaking up when you see someone being treated unkindly by others. You may volunteer to do an    assignment, read in front of the class or help someone who doesn’t understand something. The more we expand our comfort zone the bigger our box becomes. The idea is to make the world your box! Then, no matter where you go or what the challenge is, you are willing to go for it with confidence. 

 

Your leadership development happens over time. Have patience, practice these easy steps and one day you will realize you are the one making the path and leaving the trail for others to follow. And if others see you as lucky…you will know in your heart — The World Rewards Action!   © 2008 Larry Tracey All Rights Reserved

 

Larry Tracey, writer of this article, is an author and founder of  Youth4Youth. Y4Y teaches success, leadership and promotes school safety by treating everyone with respect.  His latest book, The Secret of the Can, is available at:

www.TheSecretOfTheCan.com

Basketball and Life Skills

Monday, January 26th, 2009

Head coach of Covenant girls basketball team FIRED. Wow! Teaching the qualities of integrity, heart, ability, honor and teamwork can be tough. Beating another team 100-0. Many people are divided on this. Is everyone looking at the poor me syndrome – “Look at these poor girls who got beat or were they victims of defeat” I know when I get my butt kicked there is a lot of personal growth in it. What is your opinion? If you were either team – what would be your thoughts and feelings and reasons why?

Larry Tracey is founder of Youth4Youth, an author, keynote speaker and trainer who teaches success and leadership skills promoting school safety by treating everyone with respect. Contact Larry Tracey at 216-410-4307 or email success@youth4youth.org